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Can you really learn to be happy?

Sathia

Updated: Sep 18, 2021

Last month, facilitators shared with our members how to consciously ‘be happy’ and discussed how it was okay to have moments when you weren’t jumping for joy or seeing the world through rose-coloured glasses. Here are some of the key lessons that were shared during the session.



Staff at Art of Growth say you certainly can learn to be happy but it may require a little practice.


“Being happy is a key component of quality of life as it helps to see life in a positive light, energizes to achieve goals and generally appreciate the good things in life, making one feel that life is great”

(Art of Growth, Unit 1D3)


Last month, facilitators shared with our members how to consciously ‘be happy’ and discussed how it was okay to have moments when you weren’t jumping for joy or seeing the world through rose-coloured glasses.


They considered the word of the day: 'Well-being', and explained it was a state of being comfortable, healthy, or happy. It is about how you feel about yourself, your life and as such, it is strongly linked to how happy you feel. Happiness was defined as having a meaningful life and feeling good on a day to day basis.


After discussing the quote, “Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy – Unknown”, members unpacked how indeed you can choose to be happy.


Choose To Be Happy


A rainy day that stops your sport from going ahead could be a chance to welcome the rain for relief from the heat or to water the dehydrated plants. The sickness of a loved one could be a chance to think about how much they mean to you allowing you to reflect on the good times and fun memories. A struggle at school or work could be a chance for you to look at what you have learned and where to next. You can choose to look at obstacles and challenges in different ways.


Be Proactive

  • Choose to be happy

  • Cultivate the desire to be happy

  • Cultivate a sense of gratitude

  • Foster forgiveness

  • Counteract negative thoughts and feelings

  • Foster friendship with positive people

  • Engage in meaningful activities

  • Do things for others

  • Be comfortable with who you are

  • Look forward to the future

Reap the Rewards

Study shows that happy, positive and optimistic people:

  • Set and achieve more aggressive goals in life

  • Experience less stress

  • Remain calm in a high-pressure situation

  • Are more energetic

  • Recover faster from illness and live longer

  • Are more productive

  • Achieve more satisfaction out of life

  • Have better friends and better social life

  • Tend to have more successful work-life

  • Look young and feel young

  • Generally have a more fulfilling life

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